So... I just want to give a little update on what’s been going on recently
I've been bombarded with work and I’ve been stressing out over school and uni and stuff
but my main thing was I just messed up, I unintentionally hurt the people closest to me, like, really badly
It’s gotten to the point where they don’t even want to talk to me, nor want anything to do with me
but I can’t blame them because of how I acted, and just how I am
the way I acted was unforgivable, and I know won’t be forgiven, I lost almost everyone who was closest to me and that I cared about, even if I didn’t show it, and I have no one to blame but myself and I’ll never forgive myself for it
honestly, I just miss them
but there’s nothing I can do to fix it, I went to far and destroyed everything I spent so long trying to preserve, and I forced everything and everyone that had any chance of helping me to leave me
I wanted to be right so badly about how I say I am, and now I am
if I’m able to get people like them, people who said they would never leave or forget me, if I can get people like them to hate me to the point of removing me from every aspect of their life and never wanting anything to do with me again, then the only thing I get out of it really is the knowledge that I’m right about myself
but still, it’s my biggest regret now, I’d do anything to reverse what I did, to somehow fix it, to bring back the moments and the people that made me happier then I ever have been
but... I know I can’t... I know what I did and I know I ruined our relationship to the point of decimation... I know nothing I can do will change their minds about me... I just need to move on... but I know I won’t be able to, not for a long time if ever,,
that was the reason why I deactivated and disappeared,, I just was too emotionally destroyed, I still am, I’ve just went back to suppressing my emotions, doing anything I can to distract myself from them, I haven’t really slept much because of it, every night I’ve been getting more morbid and disturbing nightmares that keep constantly emotionally traumatizing me
im scared to be alone with myself now, I’ve just been working and working on anything I can to occupy my time which I guess could come to use
I don’t really want to go into much more detail, this is all my personal problem that can’t even be helped, I just wanted to tell everyone what’s been going on, if there is anyone left who still cares about me that is
also, because my time here on DA has been so closely tied with those the people who now want me out of their life, I decided that it’s best to just restart and move accounts, my account has hardly been active anyway, most of my watchers are dead tbh
If you follow me because of the person I am or my personality, them I’d suggest not following me, I’ve already proven to everyone that I have a toxic personality that has gotten to the point where I can’t even tell who I am, and if I get even remotely close to anyone then it will most definitely end horribly
If you want to follow me for my characters or art for whatever reason then you can, I’m not stoping that, and I’m keeping all my characters and everything don’t worry, I’m just moving so my personal life mistakes don’t mess with my art stuff since my art is kinda all I have left now
Hopefully I’ll post more frequently, I’ve been working on animation a lot more now and I have the skeletal structure and script for my comic series done, hopefully I’ll start completing the comic soon, it’ll be staring all my characters of mine and finally start developing the stories I’ve been hinting at (doubt anyone cares about them but fuc it idec anymore tbh)
My new account is here if you wish to continue following me lucyddreamerz.deviantart.com (yeah same icon I know)
I don’t expect anyone to comment on this journal, it was just an update and account moving announcement tbh, I just felt some of this had to be stated to inform everyone why I disappeared for a while
Sorry if this seems half done or something I don’t really know how to explain how I’m feeling tbh but just yeah follow me on my new account if you want